Friday, January 21, 2011

Bookworm and kids...


Sony, Ri and Ji at DC Books, Abad Nucleus on a beautiful Sunday in January 2011.

Sony, my dearest, loves his books more than me.... Grrrr.... After Nescafe with lots of sugar and no milk, rice and sambhar; omelette and pazhampori, the next best thing he lives for is his books... I guess I should list them in the reverse order of importance.

His library is the sanctum sanctorum in our house. Not that we cannot enter without cleansing ourselves (though having clean hands is a must to qualify to touch any of his books), somehow his books just can’t lie!

Yup, they betray our every attempt to flick a book or two. Call it the seventh sense, he knows exactly what was where; and Ri and I try and wipe off every trace of doubt that we were there. It’s not that we fear treading into his domain; it’s just that we can’t figure out how he can sense we did. I wish he could sense the same with his personal accessories!

I envy the sparkle of his shelves, the neat rows of books all wrapped in the same kind of paper. None of them named, but he knows exactly what books they are. It has intrigued me how he does it. How he codes and decodes it. Probably it sinks into the psyche when one is so passionate about teaching. He says I can bequeath my gold to my girls and he will bequeath his treasure to his princesses... Hmm... wonder which weighs more!

On our recent visit to Abad Nucleus, a new mall that’s quite the talk of the town, he waited patiently while I surfed through the neatly folded kurtas at my favourite designer outlet, FabIndia. An hour to us, Ria and I were mighty pleased. I picked my favourite colours and tried them on comfortably with Ri and Ji shooting comments in the three-side mirrored trial room. Ji was interested in her reflection, not one or two, but six at once. Funny faces and loud laughter filled the tiny cubicle and Ria had to control ji and be the clothes stand at the same time... Quite a responsibility indeed!

Once we were out, we hit straight for DC books. A splendid outlet indeed after the spacious one DC has near Ernakulam YMCA. I thought I would have my train of followers as I did at FabIndia. But lady luck was with Sony. Ria and Jia were as serious as grown-ups searching for books. They followed him first to the kids counter and then his zone. It was pin drop silence and mind you no one asked for it. A bored me, I was left with just myself and my cell-phone. And yes, i did what i always love to do if im not shopping.... click click click! At-least I could get my book-worm and kids in the same frame.

Touchwood! They sure look as colourful as the bright books on the never ending rows of books. Honestly, I never knew book shops are meant for bonding. Now I do!

Monday, November 29, 2010

Bleep... Ten C's

Im no Saint. Neither a fool-proof sinner. Just an ordinary soul who believes in the Ten Commandments to a convenient extent. But life these days has been  like a question paper ... more like a rapid fire session where I've to pick my choices or loose.

Of all the tenets in the Ten Commandments, I often failed to understand why it was said never to use Thy Lord's name in Vain... It has perplexed me all my 36 years on this planet. Starting of as a Hindu and then being reborn to embrace Christianity, Ive taken the Lord's name whenever I was in trouble, when I was happy, when I was disturbed, when I couldn't see through the dark, when I lost my way home and found it too, when I wanted to thank someone, when somebody thanked me... That was one name that found a place in my heart and on my lips as easily as the breath that keeps me live... Yes, HE was never empty to me. Yes, it was not in vain...

Not so recently I reaffirmed my belief in the fact that The Lord is a very sincere power up there that is looked upon by everyone as the definite source of infintism. He is transcendent, the eternal, the continuously present, the ever generous....Hey but HE is up in the sky... At office and home, we have such sources of infinite powers too. Not totally Gods, but semi seats of power and authority.

Ten Commandments
Translating the tenets to the more palpable home and office scenarios, let's just take a count of how many times we use the Boss's name as a sponge, shield or weapon. The very use of their names at the wrong times and the right ones, could open shut doors wider, can finish projects in no time and even create a rainfall in winter... Let's quit exaggerating.. But its true my friends, using the Boss's name or anybody else's name to hasten things up or to save face is a rude rude strategy to meet targets... There are million other ways to do it. And the best one I feel, is by being honest about our need.

I was hurt that a dear friend of mine outwitted me recently with this crude strategy. I love him no less. But it has brought me closer to my belief, Thou shalt not take the name of  The Lord, thy God in vain.

Thanks dear Moses for the Ten Commandments. Especially this third one!